Engaging with Students Long-Distance

For the last month, the number one topic in our staff meetings has been student engagement.

Meanwhile, I have a 10-year-old student who wrote a personal narrative about how he got his first car, a 1971 VW Beetle. He plans to convert it to an electric car. He said, “I want my Bug to be the first car of my old car electric conversion shop. My next car is going to be for my dad. He wants a 1966 Chevrolet Corvette with a big electric engine.” He explained that his current car, the Bug, needs work on its transmission.

Transmission? Student engagement? Same idea, right?

If the transmission isn’t working, the gears aren’t meshing. They aren’t connecting properly. The engine can have all the power in the world, but the car won’t go anywhere.

It’s the same for us.

  • If teachers aren’t connecting with students, or students aren’t connecting with teachers …
  • If schools aren’t connecting with parents, or parents aren’t connecting with schools …
  • If districts aren’t connecting with families, or families aren’t connecting with districts …

… then we can have all the skills and experience in the world, but we can’t drive our class anywhere.

Teachers at my school monitor students as they work through our district’s 100% online curriculum. We have weekly Class Connect Sessions (CCS—similar to Zoom) where we focus on the social and emotional side of school.

As far as academics go, we have students who come to CCS and do their work independently. They need an occasional check in about a lesson. Other students come to CCS regularly but don’t do their work. Or vice versa. Or they do well in one or two classes and skip others. There are students who come to about half the CCS. They struggle with the coursework. They are often behind. They occasionally come to help sessions set up by teachers, but often they don’t. Then there are the students who don’t come to CCS, who don’t do the work, who skip most of the lessons. They aren’t making progress. They don’t come to any help sessions.

We are used to having a captive audience in our classrooms. If a child won’t come to our desk, we can go to theirs. We can kneel down to their level. We can connect face to face.

The first question we wanted to solve was, How? How do we fix the problems in front of us?

Instead, the first question we asked ourselves was, Why? What makes the students (and families) less engaged?

There were several reasons why kids might not come to CCS (or Zoom):​

  • ​They have high anxiety about being on video (even if they can turn off video)​
  • ​They have speech impediments and are embarrassed (even if they can turn off audio)​
  • ​It’s one of the only things in their week that happens at a scheduled time, and they forget​

There are several reasons why students may struggle with work. Kids lack the organizational skills to tackle online learning without an adult at home to help them during the day. There are kids with ADD/ADHD, and there are so many more distractions at home than in the classroom; again, there is often no adult at home to consistently redirect them. Keep in mind, many parents work full time. Even if they are at home, parents may have up to five school-age kids, which taxes their ability to monitor them all.

Some parents and kids may not trust us yet.​ And it can be hard to reach students and families. Phone calls, emails, texts. Sometimes nothing seems to work.  

It can be daunting! Here are some ideas to help.

2 thoughts on “Engaging with Students Long-Distance

  1. Lynne Olmos

    Wow, Jan, this is a lot of good ideas in one space! Kudos. We are really on our analogy A game these days, aren’t we?

    You are 100% correct. Engagement is the answer. We can’t teach until that has been established. Period.

    Whatever we can do to help kids overcome their barriers to engaging in learning, that is what we should be doing. This is an overwhelming time for so many. We must go the extra mile to make connections. I hope that lasting relationships of mutual trust will come of it in the end.

  2. Mark Gardner

    I appreciate all these suggestions, there are some great ideas here! Our school team has a pretty well coordinated system for tracking home/family/student contact and communicating with one another about the kids we have concerns over. That sense of shared responsibility has really helped, and I feel like communication has been the key to much of our engagement success.

    On paper, our “attendance” or engagement might look rough. (Neighboring high schools are purporting 95-100% attendance, which is weird considering how many failing grades they’re also reporting…but that’s a whole nother blog post.) The thing about my school’s internal and external communication protocols: we can tell you, to the kid, what barriers exist to their engagement, and we can tell you what we’ve tried and what we’re thinking of trying next. They’re living through a lot right now, and simply knowing the details of their lives goes a long, long way.

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